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But then, much to my dismay, Heather, who was 19 and still in high school, got pregnant and told me she was going to keep the baby. I was furious—I knew that is a huge responsibility.
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I also knew that the father wasn't going to be involved. I was worried Heather wouldn't be able to handle the pressures of motherhood, and I told her not to do anything stupid if things ever got to the point when she didn't think she could take care of this child—that she should just bring him to me, and I would help out. Sure enough, a couple of months later, Heather, who'd been living with one Lonely married woman seeking man my other daughters, came to me and said, "Ma, remember when you said you would help me with the baby?
Well, I think I need to take you up on that offer. At first, I thought it would only be a couple of months. So I went to my supervisor—I work as a certified nurse's aide in a Suffolk County nursing home—and asked if I could temporarily work nights.
That way, Jim could be home with Andrew during the night and I could take care of him during the day. But a few weeks later, when Heather called and told me she was moving to Florida, I realized being Andrew's primary caregiver and guardian wouldn't be a short-term proposition. It was a total shock, but what could I do? After all, this was my grandchild and I loved him dearly. Heather moved back to New York less than a year later, but she still wasn't ready to take care of Andrew.
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But if it's tough for me, the situation is even harder on Andrew and Alexis.
Heather, who lives about an hour away, comes to visit every week or so, and she re to them and plays with them when she's here. But the problems are not all solved. Once, Andrew showed Jim a "picture" he drew of his mother—a with nothing on it. At the bottom, he wrote, Venue in gloucester were supposed to come to our house and you didn't.
Why didn't you come? She'll come next time. Attitudes about kids are very different today than they were when my children were young. Back then, there was more focus on discipline. Nowadays, you're not supposed to spank; you're just supposed to talk to kids or give them time-outs when they misbehave. I have mixed feelings about this New Age stuff because I see a lot of rotten kids out there. Housewives seeking hot sex Antioch Illinois while I don't spank Alexis and Andrew, I'm still strict.
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Andrew can cast a fishing rod quite a distance Hot hairy black women a boy his age, and that's something that Jim—Andrew calls him Poppy—taught him. The rest of my family pitches in, offering time and some money. We're not struggling, but it helps when my older children buy the kids toys or clothing.
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My daughter Anita comes over to babysit a lot; my son Ronnie will take them to the zoo or a museum whenever he has time. I realize that my life is a lot different from that of most women my age. I Mustang ranch cost don't go to as many restaurants as my friends do, or see as many movies, or take as many vacations.
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They want to play ball or ride their bikes or go to a My horny pussy restaurant. And I enjoy doing things with them. Now my dreams revolve around retiring not so I can take a trip, but so I can spend time with these children, go on field trips with them, maybe get more involved in their schools.
In many ways, getting a second chance to have children in your life is a true blessing.